FEAR is MY FRIEND :-)

7 February 2015 at 16:34

U definitely have it in you what is required to CONQUER ur fear.

U have it in you what is required to stand-up again & keep going.

U did that many times – even when you were hardly just one year old

U didn’t fear & give up – when you were “learning to walk”.  So why “Give-up” NOW???

Whenever you are afraid (& you will be afraid of many things ..that’s but NATURAL..) —-

(1)  Acknowledg openly that you are afraid … {it’s OK to FEEL afraid. we all FEEL afraid about something or other from time to time}(2) BUT then don’t stop there… don’t give up…Neither loose hope…

Make “THAT FEAR” ur STEPPING STONE, ur guide & finally ur servant.

(3) Think of all the “X+1” days when your things were going right, when you didn’t give up, when you became afraid BUT still continued to work,  when you fell and yet got-up again…

Life is “half full, half empty”Focus on half-full & draw your energy from that/those positive & happy things/events/incidences of your life, when  “in-the-end” you succeeded — because you didn’t give up.

Today you are able to walk – because you didn’t give up, when you fell first time… & fell time and again…

Today you are able to talk – because you didn’t give up when you made mistakes while learning the language nor felt ashamed of ur mistake …Today you are able to COOK – because you didn’t GiVE UP, when that “pahili poli kartana chataka lagla” — “thinking maza haat jala tar??”… {While making chapatti for first time when ur fingers burnt, you didn’t give up – did you?”

Today you are able to do so many things(XYZ) because u didn’t stop at first instance of failure Or Fear of failure  or Fear of getting hurt or Fear of  whatsoever. .. .. INSTEAD you LEARNT positive & correct way of doing XYZ.. & eventually mastered the art of doing that very XYZ thing.

So – in a way CONQUERING YOUR FEAR helped you to GROW… !!!!

& WE EACH ONE HAS WHAT IS REQUIRED TO GROW !!

Then, it means that if as easy as developing the habit & practicing of (a) accepting our fear & (2) doing something POSITIVE using/about that fear. 🙂 – is what will MAKE US GROW

& hence the saying :  Dar ke aage JEET hai !!!!

7 February 2015 at 16:34

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